If you are wanting to be taken care of by a father-like figure, a rich daddy may be perfect for you. Read on to learn how to snag one!

Sometimes you want something a little different than a traditional relationship. Rather, you are looking for a situation where you can be taken care of really well in exchange for companionship and sex advice and nurturing, as well as being provided all the emotional support that a father figure would provide. It's sort of like having all the fun perks of a relationship without the same sort of commitments. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in then becoming a boi to a rich daddy may be the perfect kind of relationship for you!

In this guide we go over what a rich daddy relationship entails and the best way to go about getting one. Read on for all of our tips!

So what exactly is a daddy? So glad you asked! A daddy is generally an older and wealthy gay man who is attracted to younger men, sometimes called a boi. Often the relationship will be sexual in nature and the daddy will spend a lot of time teaching the boi sexually. He will sometimes take care of him financially, by providing him with clothing, trips, etc. And what the boi will provide in return will be companionship, like accompanying his daddy to certain events and also sexual favours. The boi will also be able to learn from the daddy and will usually be much more inexperienced than the daddy. Every daddy and boi relationship is totally different. Some daddies are looking for sex while others are just looking for someone classy to take to events. Some daddies totally spoil their bois while others are more modest. Each relationship totally depends on who is involved!

If you are wanting to be taken care of really well then a daddy relationship may be the perfect thing for you. These relationships are generally more black and white and don't involve feelings the same way as a traditional relationship. Because you are specifically trading one thing (companionship/sex) for another thing (clothes, jewellery, vacations), the expectations are more clear. It is also great for someone who is looking for attention and affection from a much older man. Usually it taps into a father/son kind of vibe. And while you may certainly care for your daddy, it is by no means a traditional boyfriend kind of relationship. This is very appealing to some men, who want something more no-strings-attached while also getting something in return!

The very best type of personality for a man looking to become a boi is a man who is not possessive or jealous. A daddy relationship is rarely exclusive so a boi will have to be okay with not being the only man in his daddy's life. A boi is also meant to listen to his daddy and follow his lead. He is the primary of the relationship and calls the shots, much like a father figure. Sometimes he can be stern and make a lot of rules and they have to be followed. If you tend to want to take charge in a relationship, a daddy may not be the best fit for you!

We've been talking a lot about daddies but what about mamas? They are totally a thing! If you are a woman, or even a man, looking for a rich older woman to take care of you in exchange for companionship and sex, you can totally find that. Rich mamas aren't as popular as rich daddies so it may take you a little longer to find one, but they definitely do exist! Sometimes they are called a cougar, but that is more of a general term to describe an older woman who likes younger men. The relationship can be quite rewarding too, as mamas tend to bring a different dynamic to the relationship.

Now that we've gone over the basics for what a rich daddy is, we're betting you want to know more about how to snag yourself one, right? Right! We'll, we've compiled some great practical tips below. Follow them and we guarantee you'll have a rich daddy in no time!

Set your own personal guidelines and wants.

Before you seek out a daddy, decide what your own personal guidelines and wants are. Basically, figure out what you are looking for in a daddy relationship and exactly what you are willing to do. Each daddy is different and will have different requirements so you want to make sure you know what your own personal guidelines are before getting into a relationship. That way everything is clear and open from the beginning! This also means that there are no surprises or confused or hurt feelings, which can definitely sour a daddy relationship. Transparency is the key to having the best daddy relationship possible!

Be aware of the expectations .

As a boi, you will be expected to perform certain duties. These duties will vary and totally depend on your daddy. Most daddies will have their "rules" that they will go over in advance before you enter in to the relationship. Make sure you understand each and every one before entering in to the relationship. There may be some room for negotiation but otherwise, the daddy sets the rules. You have to listen to him and follow his lead. You may be expected to provide sex or you may be expected to provide companionship. Always remember that you are getting a lot out of the relationship too!

Look the part.

A daddy is generally fairly wealthy so you will want to look the part too. Your role isn't that of an escort so you never want to be mistaken for one at an event or when you are out. Babies always look classy and follow the sugar daddy's lead. He will likely have a lot of opinions about what he wants you to wear. He may even provide specific outfits. It's best to go along with what he wants at the beginning. Once you have established a good rapport you can start to take more control over your appearance. But remember, you always have to make sure you are making your rich daddy look good!

Be persistent.

Finding the perfect daddy can sometimes be difficult. However, we urge you not to give up. A daddy relationship is super rewarding and if that's what you want, you should keep trying until you get it! You also want to make sure you find a daddy that you really connect with. You may be entered into more of a formal contract but that doesn't mean that you can't enjoy your daddy's company and like hanging out with him! Be sure that you are looking in all the right places for the perfect daddy. Also make sure that you look fabulous so you can get his attention. Another great way to find a daddy is to use word of mouth. Find out if any of your friends are in daddy relationships as they might know some more daddies.

Frequent wealthy hangouts.

The best place to find a rich daddy is a fancy bar or nightclub. The wealthiest daddies hang out in the most exclusive places so you need to figure out how to get yourself into these clubs and bars. Sometimes you have to be on the list so make sure you work on your charm skills so you can talk your way in. Some of the best babies befriend doormen and security so they can access all of the most exclusive clubs and bars. Once you are in the bar or club, it can get a little easier. You may have to talk to a few men before you find one who is looking for a boi. Often these men have a certain look about them so it shouldn't be too difficult!

Make yourself available online.

Sometimes the best way to find a good, rich daddy is the internet. Make yourself very visible online so sugar daddies can find you. A lot of them spend time online as they are very busy and don't often have time to spend in bars looking for the perfect boi. Make sure you have a great, sophisticated and classy presence online so it appeals and attracts all the super rich daddies!

Be cultured.

Often a daddy is looking for someone who can accompany him to events. They are usually upscale and require you to be able to make small talk with his friends and colleagues. It is a good idea to take an interest in various aspects of culture, like music, the arts, and maybe even politics. You could end up spending a night at a gala or opera and you should be able to hold a conversation with people while there. You want to make your sugar daddy look good so never up-stage him. You want to be charming and polite and well-read, but definitely don't try to steal the show either!

Be a little high maintenance.

A daddy becomes a daddy because he likes taking on a more traditional male role and take care of someone. Often it very much feels like a father/son relationship in that there is a lot of mentoring and offering emotional support. Make sure that you are just a little high maintenance so he can enjoy taking care of you and spoiling you. If you are too easy going it makes it too boring and easy for him. Make sure he knows your tastes and what you expect so he can have fun taking care of you and making sure you are provided for. A high maintenance boi also often has good taste and enjoys the finer things in life!

Know your role.

Never forget that you are a boi and he is your daddy. Often this relationship can start to feel like a traditional relationship but it is definitely not. Never forget the set-up that you have agreed on. You are not a boyfriend or a spouse. You are a boi! And if you ever feel like you want to shift into a more traditional relationship, make sure to talk to your daddy about it. Perhaps he feels the same way, but often he wants to maintain daddy and boi status because that is what attracts him. By becoming a partner and an equal, it takes away the father-figure dynamic.

Don't be exclusive.

Most of the time daddies aren't exclusive. They have a lot of bois that they are taking care of and often think of them as a big family. You likely will never interact or meet the other bois but you will know they exist. A daddy usually isn't interested in monogamy because that is a different sort of relationship. Instead, a rich daddy will spread his wings, so to speak, to take care of as many bois as he can. Always remember this and don't get too caught up in one daddy. The best thing to do might be to get multiple daddies to learn from and have nurture you. That way you won't get super attached to just one!

Get just enough out of it.

Remember that this is a very specific kind of relationship. You are looking for a rich father figure to provide for you and teach you about sex and your daddy is looking for a boi to take care of. Once you stop getting just that out of the relationship, it may be time to move on. But that is okay! Many daddy and boi relationships don't last forever. And that is okay.

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