Everyone wants to have the best sex of their lives. In every partnership, the relationship with sex will always change over time though, and it's important to understand how to evolve, and keep the magic happening in the bedroom. Having the best sex of your life may be easier than you think though, and SexSearch has got the tips you're looking for! So, how do you have the best sex of your life? You need to be open and confident and comfortable with your naked body. Be willing to talk about what you and your partner both like in the bedroom, and spice things up. Keep the lines of communication open and don't take things so seriously. In the end, you just need to go with it and have fun! Also, keep reading because we've got the advice you're looking for right here. Let's have some fun!

This is always going to be one of the biggest parts of having a great sex life, regardless of anything else. You need to be open, and willing to look at some things differently - including yourself. We all come from different upbringing and backgrounds, so we all approach sex differently, and for some people, approaching sex can be a really taboo thing to do. Try to remember that whether you're really comfortable talking about sex or you're really intimidated by it, your partner may be at the opposite end of the spectrum, either way. Approach is really important, and you're going to need to be open to any possible response. Once you've started the dialogue, you can move forward from there, and continue to build trust together when it comes to talking about sex and intimacy. Remember though, in the very beginning, it all starts with being open. The more open you are, the easier the lines of communication where sex is concerned will begin to flow, and the closer you and your partner will be able to get as a result. Openness can change everything in a relationship when it comes to communication, and where sex is concerned, it's a game changer.

One of the main things that can tend to keep us from communicating our desires is not feeling comfortable in our own skin. It's unfortunate, but it's also true that many people experience this kind of difficulty when it comes to being naked and intimate with someone in nothing but their own skin. You really can't get any more naked than that. One of the best things that you can ever do for yourself will be to learn to love your naked body. Love it for all of it's great features and all of its imperfections as well. You'll be a happier person overall as a result, and another by-product of being comfortable and loving yourself in your own skin, is that you will also feel great when it comes to being sexually intimate with your partner as well. You can never go wrong by loving the skin you're in, and loving your body changes everything about how you carry yourself. It changes how you carry yourself out in public, at work, around friends and others, it also definitely changes how you feel about yourself when it comes to sex, and everything associated with it. When it comes to sexiness, most people - male and female - will always tell you that those who are the most comfortable with their bodies are the sexiest!

To take the point of loving your body a bit further, it's important to be confident. Genuinely confident as well, not cocky or arrogant. That's doesn't turn anyone on. I once spoke with an exotic dancer who had a perfect body, and I asked her what she did to stay in such good shape. She told me to not even worry about it. She said that if there's anything she's learned from doing a job where how your body looks is pretty much everything, it's that when it comes to really being one on one with men, it's not your body, but your confidence that really matters. This is very true. When you focus on the things that you don't particularly like about yourself, your partner will be forced to look at them as well, and notice them. On the other hand, when you're comfortable with your own body and you're confident, that's what they're going to see. It's not going to matter if you have some cellulite, or a bit of a belly, or a birthmark, what they're going to see is how good you feel in your own skin, and male or female, there is nothing sexier than someone truly confident!

Ideally, this is something that you're already able to do with your partner. In any fulfilling sexual relationship, there is a desire to please your partner and vice versa. It can understandably feel intimidating to communicate these feelings, because you might not know how your partner is going to respond. Don't worry about that, though. Chances are that once you've told your partner, they'll enjoy the opportunity to please you more, and will be more turned on during sex as a result. You should never have to feel uncomfortable telling your partner what you like. Especially as time goes on, it becomes more and more important to keep these lines of communication open, and to feel confident expressing our desires with our partners. There's no doubt about that! We'll get to communication more in a little while, but in the meantime, make an effort to tell your partner what it is that you want, and what you really enjoy. You'll be really glad you did!

Now, having said that, it's equally important for you to ask your partner what it is that they like, and/or be open to them when they make an attempt to share their desires with you. It's a great way to get to know your partner's body better, and to make sex a lot hotter for both of you, knowing that you're able to turn them on to the fullest as well. It's not always easy to ask your partner what they want, especially if they're more of a shy type. You can ease into it though, and try to make an approach that's maybe a bit more simple at first, and then ease into more detailed questions over time. On the other hand, they may be willing to open right up to you right away, and that will make things much easier, and certainly far more enjoyable, far more quickly. The important thing is always to try. You never really know what to expect when you approach someone with sex-related questions, but most people who have open lines of communication in the bedroom will tell you that it has made having open lines of communication in other areas much easier as well.

No matter how good each of us is at certain things that we do in bed, when you do them long enough, they do start to become a little bit old and predictable. That's not always a bad thing, of course! It's great to know the go-to things that your partner loves, but over time things can become routine and very stale. When things get to that point, the best thing to do is to try spicing things up, and trying new things! This can seem very intimidating to a lot of people, and that's understandable. On the other hand though, it can really be a lot of fun! Especially when you and your partner are both up for it. It can turn into another fun thing that you both enjoy doing together. Shopping for toys together, trying out new positions, enjoying each part of the process. There are few people who would ever say that spicing up their sex life ever drove them and their partner apart. It's a fantastic way to draw each other much closer, and definitely worth a try!

Once you and your partner begin to try new things, it's important to remember that just because you decide to try something new doesn't mean that you and your partner are both going to automatically enjoy it. There are likely to be some things that you end up enjoying more than they do, and vice versa. The important thing is to keep the lines of communication open so that you can talk to each other about what it is that you both do enjoy, and do more of those things. Neither of you is required to feel the same way about the different things you decide to do, and it's important to be equally mindful of this and respect how the other is feeling. No one wants feel pressured to do things that they aren't comfortable with, especially in bed. It's supposed to be an enjoyable experience all around, so be honest with each other about what it is that you do and done like, and spend time focusing on doing the things that you both enjoy. When the lines of communication are open, you change the game completely - for the better!

This is pretty important because there seems to be enough pressure where sex is concerned to begin with, and when we decide to go ahead and make some changes like trying new things, we need to take a relaxed approach and not take things so seriously. Some things are going to click right away and some things are going to take more work. That's the way it is with pretty much anything when you're doing it for the first time. So, don't take things any more seriously than you need to. You'll simply add additional unnecessary pressure to a situation that's already touchy to begin with (pardon the pun), and you'll end up making it into more of a task or a chore, than an enjoyable experience.

Seriously, just let things unfold. When we try new things they're not always going to look and feel how we might picture them in our minds. When are things ever as glamorous as we picture them, right? The important thing is to give things a try, and just go with it. It might seem awkward at first, but when you let go and enjoy the moment, you might be surprised with how enjoyable things can turn out. If something you try is just plain awkward, then that's exactly what it is. You and your partner can have a laugh about it, and move on to something else. Sex is meant to be enjoyable, and that means enjoying things to the max when they are their most pleasurable, and it also means enjoying the parts that don't turn out exactly as we'd like with a little laugh, and an openness to move on.

It's sex and it's supposed to be fun, so whatever approach you and your partner end up deciding to take when it comes to having the best sex of your life, make sure that you're having fun with it. As mentioned, laugh at the funny or messy parts, and enjoy the hottest parts together as well. Sex isn't like they make it seem in the movies. It can be messy, awkward, and a million other things as well. The important thing is to get the most out of it, and to have a good time. If you can do that, anything else you and your partner do in bed together will always be enjoyable.

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