Okay, let's not beat around the bush here...so to speak. Whether or not women like to swallow is definitely a personal choice, and it's not one that tends to vary a whole lot. Most women, if they're being honest, will surely say that they're not particularly into swallowing. Overall though, whether or not women want to swallow will vary depending on a number of things. So, do women like to swallow? Some do, but again, most don't unless they're in love with you, feel they're in a safe place, or know that your reasons for wanting them to aren't selfish ones. Sure, the odd woman does enjoy it, but if you're not going down on her and you're not communicating with her, it doesn't look good. You can change her mind though, if you keep the pressure off of her. This being the case, you'll be happy to know that she's likely to come around. SexSearch has got some tips to help you out here, and if you read through them all and take them to heart, then you're much more likely to have her enjoy a taste. Keep on reading for more information, and find out what you can do to ensure that your woman is far more open to doing the deed.

It's true that a vast majority of women do not enjoy swallowing. Imagine drinking a bottle of Buckley's - X100. It tastes bloody awful, and unlike Buckley's, you receive absolutely zero benefit from swallowing it. So, if a woman is not interested in consuming your load, you really shouldn't bother to take it offensively. If you ever tried a mouthful of that spunk, you'd likely never do it again, either. Having said that, you should never completely assume that it's off of the table, either. Women can surprise you every now and then, and when she's really into you, you might be surprised with what she's up for. There's certainly no timeline for this and every woman is different, but it's definitely realistic that you'll be caught off guard with a pleasant surprise at some point. One of the most sure reasons that a woman might decide to take a sip, is if she's really into you. To take that one step further, if she's in love with you, then the game definitely changes, especially if she knows that you feel the same way about her. Let's go ahead and talk about that a little further.

Because if she is in love with you, then there is a very good chance that she is swallowing your swimmers, especially if she knows that you feel the same way about her. As mentioned, a woman who feels comfortable and secure with your relationship is far more likely to take things to another level. Maybe it's just the way the female mind works. Maybe it's the reward factor. Maybe she just really enjoys it, but doesn't pass it out as a given with men she's not completely comfortable with. Whatever the case may be, you can be sure that if the two of you are in love, your chances for the swallow go up greatly. As complicated as men tend to think women are, they actually aren't. They simply approach most things from a different perspective than men do. If you can make her feel like she's free to be as open as she wants to be - or might not generally be - then chances are that you're going to be happy with the outcome (another one!).

Picking right up where we left off, it's important to take this into consideration. Does the lady you're looking to serve feel like she's in a safe place with you? If she does, then you're in really good shape. The safer and more comfortable a woman feels with a man, the more likely she is to want to try new things - or try things that she rarely has any interest in doing. It's actually quite amazing what a woman might be able to do when she knows that she's in a safe place with you. Men are always up for whatever where sex is concerned, generally speaking. Even most men can admit that they feel much more open to trying things that they might not generally do, if they're in a safe place though. Now, try and put yourself in the shoes of a woman. A woman's nature is to feel confident when she's in a safe place - especially where sex is concerned. If you can genuinely create that for her, then you're well on your way to enjoying an impressive grand finale.

Be realistic. If your reasons for wanting her to swallow are completely selfish ones, then don't bother getting upset or offended if she decides she's not into doing it. Remember, porn fantasies are not real life, and there's not health benefits to swallowing. Why on earth would she want to, unless she was really into it, right? Of course every guy 'wants' a woman to do this, but it's not something that's owed. It would be wise to look at it more like something that is earned. A genuine desire to please her is very likely to inspire her to want to do the same for you. With that in mind, let's move on to the next point.

Not returning the favor means that you can absolutely take the idea of her swallowing right off of the table, because it won't be happening with any woman who is worth her salt. Sorry boys, but if you're not putting out in the downtown department, then you can pretty much be guaranteed that she won't be swallowing your stuff. If you take just a few brief minutes to think about that as well, then you're very likely to realize exactly why that is. Seriously...expecting her to step up to the plate if you're not is simply not okay. Give if you wish to receive, and even then, you should still be okay if she decides not to digest your Olympians. One thing you're sure to find though, is that the more open you are to pleasing her, the more open she will want to do the same for you.

It's not a guarantee that every woman is going to hate swallowing your goods. There are definitely some out there who say that they do really enjoy it. Some find it to be quite the turn on because of how much it turns their partner on, and a very rare few will even say that they enjoy the taste of it...yeah right. It is true that some women do enjoy it, but generally speaking, it's not going to be for the flavor. If a woman does enjoy swallowing because it turns her partner on, then good on ya for landing her. There's always the upside of being turned on by turning on your partner and if a woman's really into you, then chances are that she will enjoy doing this for your benefit at least once in a while. Is it a reasonable expectation to think that she's going to want to do it all the time, though? Probably not so much. There's nothing wrong with that though. If you're communicating with her though, you'll be able to get a better idea of where her head is at with regards to this, which brings us to our next point.

If you're communicating with one another you'll find that you're able to find out a little bit more about her inner workings surrounding the idea of swallowing semen...because at the end of the day, that's exactly what it is. Swallowing semen. Remember that when you're feeling perplexed by the ideal of her not wanting to swallow your swimmers. Talk to her about it, and if you ever hope to open up a dialogue where the two of you can openly discuss it as a future possibility, then it would be a very good idea to avoid pushing her. One surefire way to close the door permanently, is to pressure her to go there when she is not ready to do it. Let her do it all in her own time. She doesn't need to do it on your timetable, she can do it when she's comfortable, and feels like she can communicate with you. Like it or not, that's how many ladies operate. If you're not interested in taking the she needs, then you should probably find another location at which to deposit your swimmers.

Not every woman who doesn't enjoy swallowing is a lost cause. However, as mentioned above, there is a lot to consider when it comes to changing her mindset about swallowing semen. You're sure to find that with some communication and the creation of a safe place in the bedroom for her, she'll be much more open to the idea, and even more so once she has fallen in love with you, and knows that you feel the same way. Of course this isn't the basis of the discussion that you want to have, however it is very much relevant, and is important for you to know if you ever want to end up changing her mind about swallowing your swimmers. Comfort = cum, in a lot of cases...you'll definitely want to keep that in mind.

As mentioned, the more pressure she feels, the far less likely she is to do it. Swallowing is definitely not something that any woman wants to feel pressured to do, and one sure way to ensure that she eventually never wants to do it again, is to try and pressure her into it. It's something that women generally need to feel at least some element of comfort to do, so that being the case, pressure is a big no-no. The more you lay off and leave it up to her, the more likely she is to take it on, at least now and then, but you can definitely be sure that she won't if you're trying to convince her, or make her feel pressured into doing it. Taking a cool approach is sure to open a lot more doors to you in this department, and with a little patience, you just might be able to change her mind. That being said, let's check out the next point.

Yes, fellas. Even if it seems like it may never happen, not all hope is lost. If, of course, you've listened to what's been said in this article and you've respected her boundaries, even someone who has traditionally been completely scared off of swallowing can end up changing their mind. If you give a woman space and respect her boundaries, as with any aspect of a relationship, you're sure to find that she becomes more open to giving your manshake a try. If she's not doing it frequently, she's likely to do it far more often if you give respect her boundaries. Same applies if she's not doing it at all. Think of the things you hate doing...are you going to be more likely to do them when you're pressured? Probably not. If you're given your space and time to get comfortable with the idea, that's likely to change though. Same goes for women.

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