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When Is It Okay To Leave Immediately After Sex?

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The general answer to this question is likely to be, 'never', but this is actually not the case. There are some times when it's not only acceptable to leave immediately after sex, but it's also recommended. The answers you're looking for are right here, and SexSearch has got them. So, when is it okay to leave immediately after sex? There is a genuine emergency, they're being an ass, you need to stay ahead of the weather, you have a legit commitment later on, you've been asked to leave, their place is a disaster area, you're heading out to grab some pizza and beer (of course you'll be back), they're getting far too cuddly, you're having really nasty stomach issues, and finally, you just don't want to be there. Read on for more.

There Is A Genuine Emergency

Okay, still sounds like a bit of a blow off, but if it's a genuine emergency, then you don't really have the time to stick around and explain that to anyone. If they're really cool, then they'll be cool with waiting to hear from you when you have some time to reach out to them. There is no reason to feel like you can't leave directly after sex when there is a genuine emergency that you need to leave for. Any halfway normal human being is sure to understand, and be cool with waiting to hear from you. If they're not, then it's really a win-win for you. You get to rush the hell out of there, and you also get to do it quickly, safe in the knowledge that you will never be contacting them again. Life happens to all of us, and there's no reason why someone shouldn't give you the benefit of the doubt, unless you're a repeat offender.

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They're Being An Ass

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Ain't nobody got time for that. If they're behaving in a way that's less than cool, they're immediately all over their social media after their done, or they're blatantly communicating with other hookups directly in front of you, then it's absolutely time to bounce. Do not pass go, do not collect $200, just get the hell out of there, get home, and take the hottest shower you're capable of withstanding. There are really no circumstances under which any self respecting human being should be required to subject themselves to this kind of disrespectful behavior. To take it a step further, would we even need to say goodbye in this case? I pretty much think not. Gather up your belongings, being incredibly safe not to leave anything that you value behind, and head straight for the door, knowing full well that you won't be going back for anything that you may have happened to forget. Sure, you'll probably hear from this jerk again at some point, but that's why they invented the blocking option. Next!

You Genuinely Need To Stay Ahead Of The Weather

If there's a legitimate weather concern, like a blizzard of the years or a huge thunderstorm system that's making its way into your area, then it's perfectly acceptable to leave right after sex, if it means that you're going to be able to stay ahead of it, or make it home before it becomes impossible to drive in, and a legitimate safety hazard. Regardless of how anyone might feel about it. Genuine concern for your safety is something that you should never have to explain or compromise for anyone. If you're concerned for your safety and you're genuinely trying to play things safe, then by all means, leave afterwards. There's no reason that any sane person is going to attempt to question or guilt you about this, and if they do, then the only thing you need to worry about doing, is leaving faster. See ya!

You Have Another Legit Commitment

If you have another commitment that you've made this person fully aware of, then you have absolutely every right to leave after sex. If they're aware of it, then they should already be expecting your departure afterwards anyhow, so by all means, feel free to scram, and not to feel the least bit bad about it. Unless they're not firing on all cylinders, they're sure to be understanding of the fact that it's time for you to leave, and see you out with a hug, and maybe some plans to meet again when you're both free. The 'trap you into hanging out for the night' sex stunt doesn't generally accomplish anything aside from pissing off the person who has already extending the courtesy of letting you know that they are unavailable after a certain point. Best case scenario would be that if they end up staying, they're not going to be entirely happy with you anyway, and you end up spending the night feeling not quite cool with each other. Who needs that? If you need to go, then go. Don't worry about pissing anyone off. You did your due diligence as soon as you let them know you had other plans. That's all that's required of you.

You've Been Asked To Scram

Haha! Ouch! Well, let's be realistic here, this does happen. Who knows, maybe they've double booked themselves that night, maybe they've got some other legit plans themselves, maybe you've said or done something to offend or piss them off in the few short minutes since you finished banging, and they've asked you to hit the bricks. Whatever the reasoning might be, if you're asked to leave, then it's probably a good idea that you follow through. If there's a legitimate reason for why you've been asked to leave, then you need to cut your losses, get ready in a hurry, and fly out the door. Chances are that if you've pissed someone off enough to ask you to leave, then you should just go. If you've been asked to leave and you're not sure why, you should give them the benefit of the doubt and reach out to them later on to see if everything is okay. They may have had an emergency come up. If there was nothing legitimate though, then you should probably avoid all future contact with this dick of a human at all costs. What ever the reasoning though, whenever you're asked to leave, it's a good idea to scram.

Now That The Lights Are On, You're Scared

Wow, in the heat of the moment, you didn't notice that their place looked like something out of your worst nightmare. Now that the endorphins have worn off, and the lights are on, you're absolutely disgusted with what you're seeing, and you need to get the hell out of there. This is absolutely okay, but you need a strategy! You might decide to remain for about 10 minutes of obligatory cuddling, and then maybe say that you need to be at work early the next day so you need to head home and get things ready. You might say that you have family plans in the morning. Find your excuse, and stick with it! Don't feel badly about it, either. If you can't deal with a person's housekeeping methods, then things between the two of you have nowhere to go but down, anyhow. Be as polite as possible, get out of there as quickly as you possibly can, and let them know that you're no longer interested. No need to stick around for that.

You're Heading Out To Grab You Guys Pizza And/Or Booze

Sweet! Yeah, you can go and do that right after sex! In fact right after sex is the most perfect time to go and do that. There are never any circumstances under which this is an unacceptable move by anyone, provided, of course, that you return, and that you do indeed return with pizza. Likewise, if you've elected to step out and pick up some drinks for the two of you, because you're planning on enjoying some time together and enjoying another couple rounds of the goodness, then this is yet another time when it is perfectly acceptable to depart directly after sex. Once again, dependent on whether or not you actually return with the bevvies. Now, if you do return with pizza and beer, then chances are that an awesome night is about to become even more awesome, all because you left right after sex. How about that!? Seriously though, it's a nice gesture, and it'll give your partner a chance to get a few things ready at their place while you're off collecting the goodies for the obviously fun night you're about to spend together. Anyway you look at it, that's a pretty seriously awesome for leaving someone's place right after sex.

They're Getting Far Too Cuddly

If they're coming on a little bit to strong in the emotional/smothering department after you've just had sex, then it's time for you to get out of there! You can deal with this for a few minutes and do some time, but as soon as you get that final nudge in your gut that it's time to go, then it's time to go. No explanation really needed here. You've got a lot on the go tomorrow and you hadn't planned on staying there anyhow. You're ready to go home, and head to bed. You had a really nice time. Have a good night! That's all you really need to do. As soon as someone's behavior in that regard starts to make you that uncomfortable, then you need to remove yourself from the situation entirely, because it's obvious that the two of you aren't feeling the same way about each other. Sticking around to see how this situation ends up playing out isn't going to be good for anyone, so make sure that you're leaving this one safely behind you, after you scram.

Uncomfortable Stomach Issues

Haha! Okay, it's a bit funny. We know we've all done it, though. We've left someone's place right after sex, went home after an awesome date, left in the middle of a movie night...all because we got that tell-tale feeling in our stomachs, and we knew what was on its way - a few hours on the toilet. Sure it seems trite, until you're the one with the problem, at that point, if you don't already, you will understand all too well. Any kind of major issue for which you require complete privacy, this also includes any period related matters for the ladies, is more than legitimate grounds for you to leave directly after sex. All you should need to say is that you don't feel well, and you need to be on your way. You'll message or call them as soon as you have a chance. In all likelihood, then will be aware that they don't need to take this personally, and be cool with it.

You Really Do Not Want To Be There

At the risk of sounding like a complete douchebag, well, I actually don't care. If you really and truly do not wish to remain there anymore, then by all means, leave. There is no reason why you should feel obligated to hang out there any longer than is necessary. So, if you really feel like what you need to do is get packed up and head for the hills, then that's exactly what you should do. Now, having said this, there are a few other things that should be said to follow. If you really do feel this way, then you need to be aware of the fact that you're going to be very deeply upsetting someone, and that an apology and a goodbye for this person should definitely be on your list of things to do as well. Other than that, you're free to go!

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