Sex With Locals: Safety Tips For Offline Online Dating Meetings
"It can sometimes seem a bit tricky to follow all the traditional online dating safety tips when you are meeting someone for a sex hookup, and even more tricky to follow traditional sex safety tips when you are having casual sex with multiple partners you meet online. This kind of dating is always more risky and requires much more trust. That doesn't mean that you should miss out on the wild fun you can have offline with online partners. It is important to be aware, however, that casual sex with locals you meet online is necessarily more risky than other sex interactions or casual meetings. That can be incredibly stimulating and exciting! It's also extremely risky. If you feel like taking that risk for yourself, then that's your choice. If you want to have all the fun without all the heavy potential consequences, then you can take these safety precautions. At Sex Search, we want you to have the safest and sexiest online dating experience possible, so we have prepared some safety tips for you to keep in mind. We also have several other articles and tips on local sex dating available to you here.
Background Check Your Partner
It may seem like a creepy idea to look up your potential future sex partner, but with all the Internet scams out there today, it is a good idea and the first step in protecting yourself. If you're intending to meet people in your area for sex with locals, it's a bit easier to verify this person is who they say they are. They should be able to make accurate local references and a history within the area. Do a quick "reverse image" check on google to see if you've been communicating with someone claiming the likeness of someone else. If it turns out your "Ashley" from down the street who teaches art to children is actually model Gisele Bundchen, but not really, then you should just move on. Everything about this person is now up for discrimination. If you are planning to meet them in person, they should be able to give you a name. When they do, check out if they have social media accounts and see if you know anyone they're connected with. If they want to keep things anonymous, move on. You don't need to take that risk. If you are concerned about dating scams, see our article "How To Have Real Sex Dates Online," to learn how to make sure your dates are real.
Communicate Before, During, And After
Many dating advice experts will tell you to ask your future sex partner questions like how many sex partners have you had, and have you been tested for STIs/STDs, and when, and how many sex partners do you currently have, etc. This is a bit difficult for casual sex with locals and online dating. Assuming most people you encounter online have active sex lives, you know the answers to these questions aren't going to be very reassuring, but you can get a bit of control back through ongoing communication. Discuss your intentions and your wants before you get together to make sure you're both on the same page (and to get to know each other a bit first before you launch into anything). If anything comes up of concern or ideas, communicate them to your partner. Make sure you have a way to contact this person after your encounter also, in case you need to make them aware of any health concerns, for example. On Sex Search, our members are very sex positive and responsible. You should not have to worry about scaring people away with your talk of safety."
