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• Age: 34
• Sex: straight single man

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Location: Birmingham, West Midlands

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About Me: So sorry your reader is having to live this. I had a similar revelation with my ex, though his indiscretion was via email, which he left open our our shared laptop; yeah, he wanted to get caught. I would have almost rathered it had been a sexy, steamy exchange, I could have written that off as a superficial relationship….but the ‘I love you’ ‘I miss you’ ‘xoxo’ stuff caused a far more serious pain; it implied a longer term relationship had been going on, and that it had a strong emotional component, as opposed to just a physical one. Not that I would have forgiven either. When I was in this spot, my decision was clear, I have always had a no tolerance/no forgiveness attitude toward cheating. Your reader’s approach will depend entirely on her own beliefs, but hopefully she’ll get support from family/friends etc. no matter what she decides.